A well-known video jockey named Moet Abebe has advised women against spending time and energy pursuing a man.
In a recent update on her Instagram story, Moet Abebe argued that men are supposed to pursue and follow women and not the opposite.
Moet Abebe urged women who show interest in men to put emotional distance between them so the man would have to work much harder to get their attention.
Moet Abebe asserted that women are discouraged from openly expressing their emotions since they would always be held responsible if things didn’t turn out as planned.
“Let Man be following you!!! You string them along!!! You make them invest in you!!! Let them be the ones to waste their time and not you… Let them chase you!!! You should Be the one that is emotionally unavailable!!!
You should Be the one that takes time to answer their calls or respond to their messages…. on a real.. over doing or being over caring.. e no Dey pay… Focus on you and your happiness mehn.. never let it revolve around Man becos na you the woman them go still blame when it all goes to sh*ts. You may as well make it work out in your favour…”