Nigerian media personality, Bolanle Olukanni has advised her fellow women to be friends with a guy before starting to date him.
Bolanle Olukanni took to her Twitter and Instagram page to highlight the dangers of not dating or marrying a man who you were not friends with as she reveals that when you are friends with a guy before dating him, it gives you clarity into their character.
According to the television and radio presenter, people can fake their actions to win your affection but if they are strictly on a friendship level they will show themselves for who they are.
She quizzed ladies if they can hold a conversation with them, and like their mind after the initial attraction and butterflies pointing to the fact that these questions will save you a lot of disappointments and heartache.
Below are a few reactions;
Lol, y’all needs to understand that there’s no manual as to how this works, anyone can pretend while you are just being friends with them, then the moment they get what they want…they move on to the next, instead pray not to fall into the wrong hands abeg 👍
As I dey so, no Holy spirit be my plug. You can be friends for hundred years and not know the persons character na until you marry you go know the person. There’s no curriculum when it comes to choosing a partner.
U haven’t dated with a professional two faced man, it’s when u marry that they show u their true colours..there’s no manual to good marriage na only God n luck dey run am my dear