Hermes Chibueze Iyele, often known as Hermes, a Big Brother Naija housemate, has talked openly about his relationships with two partners.


Everyone was shocked when Hermes disclosed during his introduction that he is in a polyamorous relationship with two women. He has now clarified the specific nature of his interaction with the women, though.

He said:

“So they are amazing Queens cos the template of our relationship is an agreed…….Like I said I am not single but at the same time free to have whatever I want.
I will explain. The template of the kind of relationship I have with my partners is called “a polyamorous relationship”.

But the kind of polyamorous relationship I practice with my partners is such that we both or three of us have a certain freedom.

So it’s hard to imagine because it is difficult to actualize. It really is.

Talk about having to be jealous all the time. For a man this is a hard thing to thing about.

For a woman, in my opinion, women are very emotionally intelligent.

I have had to deal with a lot.
I met Magreta (German-Ethiopian) on a tour.

It’s a choice between every individual involved. It’s is hard for me and them as well. so if I’m asking for the freedom to have more than one because I try to be as fair as possible I’m allowed to allow then have that and if you think that that is easy, it’s a lie beacuse I also get jealous but that is an emotion that can be managed.”

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