51-year-old Mother of Three Leaves Message For Women Days After She Married 32-year-old Kenyan Gospel Musician

The happiest women, according to Esther Musila, the 51-year-old wife of Kenyan gospel musician Guardian Angel, 32, are not married or single.

Esther and the award-winning artist married in a private ceremony on Tuesday, January 4, according to LIB.

Musila shared a video of her wedding day on Instagram on Sunday, along with a message for women.

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Happy women, according to the mother of three, do not play the victim, but rather choose happiness above wrath.

“The happiest women today are not the married ones. They’re not the single ones. They’re not the ones with stable careers and good incomes. The happiest women are the ones who made a choice to love themselves wholly and truly. Women who chose to leave the past behind worked on their self-esteem and put a high price tag on their self-esteem,” she wrote.

“They stopped playing victims. They stopped whining in self-pity and dining in pity parties. They moved past their anger, tears and bitterness. They realized that happiness is a personal choice and responsibility. They chose to be defined by their present, but not their bitter pasts.”

“They are happy because they don’t need validation from anyone. They are happy because they know that they don’t need to throw shade on anyone for them to shine. They are happy because they chose to be Queens, to the ladies in the house.”

Source; Ghgossip.com